Part 1 (nonverbal communication with a partner)
· I found this part of the experiment difficult at first. I found it funny because it was almost like charades. After a while it became easier because I could use my hands or nod or make noises to signify I liked something or not. I did this experiment with my nephews and husband. I had my husband attempt to translate what I was trying to communicate. I’m a bit of a talker so it was hard to think about how I could communicate what I wanted to say without speaking. My nephews are younger so they were such good sports. They thought it was like a game. They would grab things and point to objects and ask me “is this what you want or do you want this?” The experiment was fun but it became more frustrating when we started working on a craft I had brought for the boys. It was a foam toy shop that we were supposed to connect and put together. They lost a bunch of the pieces because they weren’t listening to my husband who was trying to get them to stop. I was frustrated because I’m pretty firm and would have taken the craft away if they weren’t listening but my husband only thought I was trying to get them to give him the pieces.
· If I were in the situation of meeting a different culture and my culture was not able to communicate verbally, I would think the other culture would think they were more advanced than ours. The culture that is able to speak has a clear advantage when it comes to communicating complex ideas. I would think the other speaking culture might look at my culture as barbaric because I would need to use my hands and body to communicate rather than using my voice. However in today’s society we treat Individuals who are deaf with respect and compassion. We try and accommodate anyone’s disability. Individuals who are deaf are able to communicate using sign language or by reading lips. Many deaf people may even have an interrupter who can assist them in communicating to others who are not familiar with sign language.
Part 2 (communication without using hands or tone)
· I was able to last for the full 15 minutes, however I felt like I stopped trying to start up conversations after the first 10 minutes. I am a big talker and I guess I’m a hands talker. I also have a bit of a strong personality and it was hard not to let it out. I felt a bit robotic and I felt like people thought I wasn’t interested in what they were saying because I remained monotone.
· I think the partners who I interacted with found it challenging to talk to me. At first it was funny because I sounded like a cave man but then it became hard to keep conversations going. I think by not changing my tone at certain parts of the conversation made it sound like I wasn’t interested or didn’t care.
· I guess this experiment really showed how we use our whole bodies to communicate. I think we use our hands and voice as a way of expressing our selves. Not just in what we want to say but also in who we are. You can learn a lot about someone from having a conversation with them, you can also learn about their personality if they are shy or outgoing.
· Some individuals who are autistic have a hard time reading facial expressions or body cues. Learning that we use our bodies to express all types of emotions can be really beneficial. It can help them in the future to look for characteristics that one might try and express non-verbally. I don’t believe there aren’t any benefits to reading body language. Often time we express our selves through are body and are not fully aware of it. If I am mad or angry at someone I often will give them the silent treatment until I am able to express what I need to say in words. Most people are able to pick up on peoples attitudes or feelings by the way they are using their body language.